Saturday, November 20, 2010

Emmanuel.F.kumah:Climbing the ladder of Success

One of the primary characteristics of successful men and women in every walk of life is that they have very clearly defined ideals and they are very aware of whether or not their current behaviors are consistent with their idealized behaviors.Success is not developed in a day but it is a daily affair, to be successful you need to follow the foot steps of other successful people in your society,do what they do and you would get the results they get.
If you intend to be successful in every area of your life , you are reading the right material mix it with faith and this step would give you the momentum needed to achieve success in every area of your life.Are you ready to explore with me some steps you can take to be a big success. Since you are still reading, i guess your answer is definitely YES!
 Now let's get going

3 ways to be a successful Person.
1.Determine Your Direction :Determine the direction in which you are heading with your life,it is very simple, this is important because, if you do not know where you are heading to someone would show you a different road, your direction guides the growth and evolution of your character and personality. Have a clear view of life and develop a good self concept about yourself do not look down on what you can do-this self concept ,which is a combination of all of the qualities and attributes of other people that you most admire,(you may admire motivational speakers, music ministers or teachers),would guide you to determine the direction you are heading. Remember success is not a matter of speed but of the direction you take.Ask your self some thought provoking questions:Where are heading to in life,where would you find your self in 5 years to come? Some of this questions would help you follow a particular course until you succeed.
2.Strive Toward Excellence: Throughout your life, you have seen and read about the qualities of courage, confidence ,dedication and perseverance, this are the land marks in achieving success in life.If you strive to be the best you can,wherever you find your self, You might not always live up to the very best that you know, but you are constantly striving to be a better person in light of those qualities that you value so highly. In fact, everything that you do on a day-to-day basis is gradually getting you to the place you belong,be the best you can be and offer the best service you can.Each day of yourlife,do some activities that makes you be the best,excellence is essential,never settle for mediocrity.If no one realize the effort you put in things ,never give up at least you know you are developing the habits of successful individuals.

3.Set Challenging Goals: The next step you can climb to be successful is to set goals that would challenge the things you do.One mark of every successful man is the goals he set .As you set higher and more challenging goals, the will to do  improves and crystallizes,it becomes like the chains of iron that can never be destroyed by circumstances. When you set goals for the kind of person you want to be and the kind of life you want to live, your self-concept  rises and becomes a greater guiding and motivating force in your life.Challenge the status-quo. Set challenging goals in your career and life  and i would see you on the ladder on success.
                                                  Parting Words:
Your Future is Unlimited: Perhaps the most important thing for you to realize is that whatever anyone else has done or become, you can do or become as well you need to improve on what has already been done and improvements in your self-ideal begin in your imagination, know that there are no limitation to your mind except that which you would acknowledge and accept.Start dreaming your future today,and know that the future never happenes but is always created.

This action Exercise Could be of Help:
Action Exercises:Here are two things you can do immediately to put these ideas into action.

1.First, dream big dreams. Set big, exciting, challenging goals and ideals for yourself in every part of your life. Allow yourself to imagine a wonderful life ahead.

2.Second, think about how you would act if you were an outstanding person in every way. Then, practice being this person, as though you were acting a role in a play. You'll immediately notice a difference in your behavior.
A goal without a plan is only a dream and know that the world have no room for dreamers but action takers.

What Next, Is your Turn
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