Friday, September 17, 2010

Tips on making your own Decisions

After receiving so  many emails from my readers on help in making decisions and reaching their goals, I can not sit but to provide useful help to my cherish readers on how to make an effective decision. Whether your vision is to be the President of the world, you need to know how to go about it, without being discouraged.
I am therefore pressured to share with you my cherished readers and the whole world one of the most inspiring books of all kind by Napoleon Hills in his book,”Think and Grow Rich”
The majority of people who fail to reach their visions and dreams are easily influenced by the opinions of others.They always permit the newspaper and gossiping neighbors to do their thinking for them. Know that in this world we live in opinions are the cheapest commodities,every one had a bag of opinions ready to be wished upon anyone who would accept them.If you are influenced by the opinions of others, you will have no desire of your own. Let me tell you one tip in making effective decision,Are you ready to learn something new? Then stay with me, and you would have made the right decision.

  • Keep your counsel:Take no one into your confidence except member you really trust or are in complete sympathy and harmony of your purpose.Normally close friends and relatives,while not meaning to do so,often handicap one through “opinions” and sometimes through ridicule,which is meant to create humor the family can laugh about.Sometimes when you share your dreams with your close friends they believe it is not possible for you to achieve them ,but they forget ,you should not judge a book by his cover.Thousands of men and women carry inferiority complexes with them through all their life and you may be one ,this happen because some well meaning but ignorant person destroyed their confidence through ‘opinions ‘ or ridicule.Know that you have brain and mind of your own you use it wisely to reach your own decisions.If you need facts or information from other people to enable you to reach your own decisions as you will probably will in many instances, inquire these facts or secure the information you need quietly,without disclosing your purpose.
  • Do not do much talking: it is characteristics of people who have but a smattering or a veneer of knowledge to try to give the impression that they have much knowledge.Such people do much talking and too little listening.If you need an friendly advice, hear this, keep your eyes and ears wide open and your mouth closed.If you talk more than you listen,you not only deprive yourself of many opportunities to accumulate useful knowledge,but you also disclose your plans and purpose to people who will take great delight in defeating you, because they envy you.
  • Be modest and silence: Remember that every time you open your mouth in the presence of a person who has an abundance of knowledge, you display to that person your exact stock of knowledge,or your lack of it.Also,know that every person with whom you associate is like yourself,seeking the opportunity to reach that goal,if you talk about your plans freely, you may be surprised when you learn that some other person has beaten you to your goal by putting into action ahead of you.
What Next?
Well , I want to say all the best in every decision and goal you want to reach and remember to keep a closed mouth and open ears and eyes.You would do me much service if you can drop me a feedback or a comment on how helpful this article has been. Feel free to share this on Facebook, Twitter and other social media.God bless You.